One to Another
Written by a parent for parents of children with epilepsy, Nonverbal Learning Disorder, Autism Spectrum Disorders, learning disabilities and other special and additional needs.
Sunday 10 March 2024
Thursday
Saturday 10 February 2024
Goat
Looking after a tiny goat kid is more work than you might imagine. It's also more rewarding than you could possibly think. Our little friend was about a month old and her mum had rejected her so things weren't great and to top it off she had a heart murmur. Our daughter and I figured that we were her only chance for survival so we decided to give it a whirl. Here's what I learned from our little cloven-hoofed friend Misty:
1. Communicate, communicate, communicate. And volume is key here. Don't whisper when loudness is so much more effective. If you're hungry, let everyone know about it. Heck, let the neighbours know....everyone needs to know.
2. Strolling is overrated. When at all possible run, spin, leap at full speed. Slowness is for sissies.
3. Everything is a potential snack. Chair cushions (especially the green ones with cute little ties), coffee tables, jacket zipper pulls, house plants....everything has some nutritional value. You just don't know until you try....
4. Every place has what it takes to be a toilet. We are not fussy; towels are good, mats are nice, dog beds are awesome even just the plain old floor. Even grass. We're not fussy--- why should you be?
5. Pushing things with your head is underrated. There is no end to fun when you are applying your forehead to any imaginable surface: fireplaces, furniture, doors. Anywhere has possible pushing possibilities. Also it feels good on those little horns that we are growing. You should try it!
6. Neatness is not a thing. Whenever possible, drip your milk, spit out your hay, knock over your water and jump at the slightest noise. It keeps life interesting and let's face it, Martha Stewart is not coming over anytime soon. Also see #4.
7. Goats are people too. Sure you may not give us the best names or dress us in the highest fashion clothes but we like the attention so we don't really care. As long as you are into the same kind of fun that we are, we like you. And if that includes racing around a field like an idiot then we love you!
8. You never know how long you have on earth so it's best to live your best life every day that you can. Make friends, sing, dance, enjoy the outdoors as much as you can and just know that every day is another chance to make someone smile....
Rest in peace Misty!
Friday 2 February 2024
Recycling 2
Saturday 6 January 2024
Don
Don had suffered through weeks in a neck brace after a fall. He was stoic and patient with the process though and I admired that about him. Another thing that I liked was that he would bring folks from his apartment building to church with him from time to time. Regardless of their faith background, he was happy to introduce them to us, his friends at church. At the last service I attended with him, Don informed me that he had gallstones and they were the cause of all his recent medical appointments. When standing up at the altar together for communion, he patted my arm and told me that he was happy to be there with me. It was such a kind moment!
Saturday 23 December 2023
Manana
This week I learned how to say thank you in Pashto. It was taught to me as a result of meeting some folks new to this country and a donation of some family furniture. I know next to nothing about the people receiving the couch and some other pieces but I do know that I was the one who received the larger, more profound gift. The reality that these families had escaped an oppressive regime half a world away with almost none of their own possessions affected me deeply. Their simple expression of thanks was one that I will never forget. And today, that is what I am grateful for. As divided and hate-filled as this world can be, there are instances of love. "Love thy neighbour as thyself" Jesus said. Helen, you helped show me what that looks like. Thank you! Manana!